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</svg> </a> </div> <p id="copyMessage" class="text-xs text-green-500"></p> <p class="pulishedOn font-semibold text-center mt-8 uppercase text-slate-500 text-[11px]">Published on: 31-05-2023</p> </div> <div class="blogImage my-3 center"> <img src="../Images/blog-vices.webp" alt=""> </div> <!-- <div id="google_translate_element"></div> --> <div id="google_translate_element"></div> <script type="text/javascript"> function googleTranslateElementInit() { new google.translate.TranslateElement({ pageLanguage: 'en', includedLanguages: 'en,hi,gu,ta,te,ur,as,bn,ks,kn,kok,ml,mni,mr,ne,or,pa,sa,sd,si,ur' }, 'google_translate_element'); } </script> <script type="text/javascript" src="https://translate.google.com/translate_a/element.js? cb=googleTranslateElementInit"></script> <div class="blogDetails my-3 px-8 sm:px-24 text-justify text-slate-800 font-medium"> <p class="mb-4"> <span class=" firstWord font-bold text-3xl text-indigo-800">F</span> ive vices are the five thieves we are always trying to find happiness from. However, the happiness we obtain from them is very temporary. Out of all the worthy things we pursue outside ourselves, we only experience temporary happiness. This creates a void inside us, and that void generates emotions, which are our vices. </p> <p class="mb-4"> The five vices are known as the "vikar" in Hindi. They are "kam" (desire or lust), "krodh" (anger), "lobh" (greed), "moh" (worldly attraction), and "ahankar" (false ego). Today, we will address these five vices. </p> <p class="mb-4"> Firstly, there is desire or lust. When this desire is unfulfilled, it leads to anger. Anger arises when we don't obtain what we want. This anger then turns into frustration and becomes a form of greed. Once we acquire what we desire, we become attached to worldly possessions, thinking that they belong to us. Finally, there is the ego, the false sense of self-importance that arises when we believe we have earned or achieved something. These five vices are like poisons. </p> <p class="mb-4"> When discussing Ravana, a pious and religious man, we learn that his desire for Sita, the most beautiful woman, led to his downfall and death. All of us have these five vices within us, although some people may have more anger, attachment, or other specific tendencies. These vices are referred to as "thieves" because, like thieves, they steal something from us. When we recognize that they are attacking us, we naturally try to distance ourselves from them. Although it may seem natural to experience anger, greed, attachment, or ego, our Guru teaches us that these are all things attacking us. Therefore, we must separate ourselves from these vices. </p> <p class="mb-4"> These vices are the reason why they are called thieves. They steal away our happiness, providing only temporary happiness in return. They rob us of our inner peace. For example, if we become angry, expressing our emotions may provide temporary satisfaction and happiness. However, these vices prevent us from experiencing lasting happiness, which is what I am referring to as the "everlasting happiness" that the Guru helps us channelize. </p> <p class="mb-4"> <span class="heading font-semibold text-indigo-600 mb-4 block"> <span class="pb-1 border-b-4 border-double border-b-indigo-600">Lust or Desire (Kam)</span> </span> Now, let's focus on the first vice, lust or desire. When we speak about lust, we often associate it with sexual desire. However, if we consider the religious aspect, having excessive sexual desire is considered a sin. Psychologically, though, a healthy sexual desire is considered normal. Today, we will examine the spiritual aspect of lust. Sexual desire itself is natural and normal. For instance, if you are married, sexual desire is necessary for procreation. However, when it overpowers and becomes an addiction, it is called lust. Lust is not limited to sexual desire; it can apply to any form of desire. It refers to any desire that overwhelms and hypnotizes us, leading to blind obsession and craving. It clouds our judgment and makes it difficult to say no to those desires. Lust can manifest as an overpowering desire for another person, an obsession with food or certain experiences, or a craving for visual or sensory stimuli. </p> <p class="mb-4"> When it comes to lust, we are never satisfied. We always want more and more. It's like a pot with holes; when you fill it, you temporarily have water, but it will eventually drain out through the holes. So, the water becomes useless. Similarly, our bodies are like pots, and desires are like the holes in our bodies. When we fulfill one desire, we experience temporary happiness, but more desires arise. It's a continuous cycle of wanting more in our lives. For example, a cricketer worked their entire life to receive a certain award and when asked how are you feeling so he said so what? Once you have a desire to get a big house when u get it now you need a servant for maintenance so you see it's a circle of desire.So, there is no end to this desire. We need to channelize it. Don't desire only material things, but start desiring knowledge. </p> <p class="mb-4"> <span class="heading font-semibold text-indigo-600 mb-4 block"> <span class="pb-1 border-b-4 border-double border-b-indigo-600">Anger (Krodh)</span> </span> Now, coming to the second vice, which is anger. What is the main cause of anger? Desire. So, if any desire is unfulfilled, you are bound to get angry. If you are hurt in any way or something has hurt you, you are going to get angry. Another reason why we get angry is because we believe we are right and others are wrong. We constantly try to prove that we are right and the other person is wrong. Many times, we blame others for our anger, but most of the time it is due to unfulfilled desires. We get angry when someone is rude to us or frustrates us. We either remove the frustration or take it out on someone else. There is a constant need to prove that I am right and you are wrong. However, when someone is angry, instead of attacking them, we should try to stop being angry ourselves. When we see someone angry, we try to provoke them, and in the process, we also become angry. It becomes a vicious cycle. Our Guru teaches us that when we are getting angry, we need to channelize ourselves and ask why our mind is not working properly, why our ego is getting hurt, and why our desires are causing anger. So, instead of blaming others for our anger, we should target ourselves and not believe others. </p> <p class="mb-4"> <span class="heading font-semibold text-indigo-600 mb-4 block"> <span class="pb-1 border-b-4 border-double border-b-indigo-600">Greed (Lobh)</span> </span> The third vice is greed. What is greed? It is basically wanting more and more, and it should not be earned through unfair means. For example, if someone is in business and they have a monopoly on a certain product, they may charge five times the amount. Their conscience might tell them that this is greed. So, they asked Guruji if the amount they are charging is greed. Guruji told them that it is their right and not greed, as long as they are not cheating others or using unfair means. Greed comes into play when we see others following unfair means and succeeding, so we are tempted to do the same. However, Guru teaches us that greed is unethical earning and not the right way to earn. This greed will create karma, and whatever harm it causes in the future will come back to us. For example, if someone injects water instead of medicine to earn more, it is greed. They played with people's health because of their own greed. In the end, their greed backfired and they ended up behind bars. To channelize this greed, if you have a desire for outward progress or knowledge, you can redirect that greed towards wanting to learn more and progress on the spiritual path. </p> <p class="mb-4"> <span class="heading font-semibold text-indigo-600 mb-4 block"> <span class="pb-1 border-b-4 border-double border-b-indigo-600">Attachment (Moh)</span> </span> The fourth vice is worldly attachments. Some people feel that emotional attachment is kind of okay. For example, as a mother, I have an attachment to my child, and it's fine. As a wife, it's normal to be attached. However, the Guru teaches us that this worldly attachment will keep us stuck and bring us back again and again. The minute we become attached to someone, we have to be born again and again. So what the Guru tells us is to turn this attachment into love. When we get attached to the people around us, the Guru tells us to bring in respect and start loving the entire world. Transform that attachment into love. </p> <p class="mb-4"> Somebody once asked Guruji, "What is the difference between attachment and love?" Guruji explained that attachment will bind your life in such a way that the decisions you make based on attachment will be harmful for you and the people you love. She gave a very good example. She said, "If your child has diabetes and is eating something very sweet, as a parent, if you are attached to the child, that is attachment. But if you truly love him, you will realize that this is poison. In attachment, we become blind, but love helps us make the right decision at the right time." </p> <p class="mb-4"> Another example is when a child needs cough syrup, but instead, the parent gives vinegar and the child dies. This happens because the parent was attached to the child, so they were in a hurry and worried, and were not able to think properly. Now, let's come to the difference. Love makes you think in a broader perspective because out of attachment, we create a lot of Karma. Our attachment also increases when we are attached to someone. We become greedy and angry, so all these vices increase with attachment. There is more desire inside you, so your vice is increased. Karma is made on the basis of attachment, and it limits you. But when you love, you love unconditionally. </p> <p class="mb-4"> Some may say that this is impossible to do, but if you look at Guruji's life, you will see that it's not so impossible. Just like how Bhagwan ji is loving everyone in this world, it can be done. When we get attached to people, we start expecting from them. But in love, there is no expectation, and these expectations hurt and disappoint us because we can't live up to everybody's expectations, and not everyone can live up to ours. When you truly love someone, you don't expect anything in return. Attachment is when we love with conditions. Attachment makes you weak, whereas love makes you strong. When you are attached to somebody or something, you are performing your duty, helping them, and doing everything, but it makes you weak. Love makes you make decisions in the right manner and makes you stronger. </p> <p class="mb-4"> Attachment increases fear, whereas true love makes you fearless. When you have attachment and somebody comes home late, you constantly fear what happens to that person. You are constantly worried. But with true love, you become fearless. Whatever has to happen, has to happen. I have faith in my God. Attachment increases dependency, whereas love makes you independent. </p> <p class="mb-4"> Guruji teaches us how to be independent. Guruji transforms our worldly attachment into true love for each other. We should strive for this beautiful transformation and not confine ourselves to a small world where we are only attached to a few people. Instead, we should embrace the bigger world, a world filled with love vibrating everywhere. However, it's important not to misunderstand this message. Don't think that you won't be able to fulfill your duties. The only difference is that attachment will make you fall, whereas true love will make you rise. When faced with a significant decision, ask yourself whether you are making it out of attachment or because it is the right thing to do. By doing so, you will start to notice the difference between attachment and true love. This awareness will help you progress because attachment doesn't disappear overnight. But with consistent practice, you can let go of attachment and spread true love unconditionally. To overcome attachment, we need a Guru and a strong connection with God. </p> <p class="mb-4"> <span class="heading font-semibold text-indigo-600 mb-4 block"> <span class="pb-1 border-b-4 border-double border-b-indigo-600">Ego (Ahankar)</span> </span> Now, let's talk about the fifth vice, ego (ahankar). </p> <p class="mb-4"> Each one of us has this ego or false sense of self. We exhibit ego when we refer to our body as "me." For example, saying "I have money" or "I don't have money" both stem from ego. It's similar to playing the game of snakes and ladders, where snakes bring you down when they bite you. In life, when you do good things, show compassion, and love, you climb up the ladder. However, when any of these vices, such as ego, come into play, they act like snakes, biting and causing you to fall down. One of the biggest snakes is ego, represented by the 99th place in the game. You may achieve great success and reach new heights in life, but the moment you let pride take over and touch that 99th place, your ego brings you crashing down. Ego is extremely harmful, and we must realize that whatever we have achieved in life is due to God's grace. When we get caught up in ego, everything shatters. The constant use of the word "I" is a manifestation of ego. We need to let go of the idea that we exist as separate individuals. </p> <p class="mb-4"> So, what is this ego that claims "I am so-and-so" and "I have achieved"? When someone says, "my body is hurting," it implies that they are separate from their body. But when you realize the truth, that you are not separate from your body, the ego naturally diminishes. We must transform this ego into awareness of who we truly are. We are not merely our bodies; we are souls. If I were to ask you, "Who are you?" you might initially respond with your name, gender, city, occupation, and other external aspects. These are the bricks that make up your life. However, these bricks shine because of the divine light within you, not because of their own inherent existence. We are born into this world without choosing our name, occupation, city, or even our family. We didn't choose our gender. So, what is there to be proud of? What is this false sense of self, ego, all about? We mistakenly believe that these shining external aspects are our true existence, and we polish them, unaware that they shine because of the divine light within us. </p> <p class="mb-4"> Within each of us, there is peace, but these five vices rob us of our happiness and peace of mind. Lust, greed, attachment, ego, and anger are the five vices that overpower us. To regain our natural state, we need to channelize these vices in the right direction. It is up to us to transform each vice into a virtue. </p> <p class="mb-4"> <span class="heading font-semibold text-rose-600 mb-4 block"> <span class="pb-1 border-b-4 border-double border-b-rose-600">Conclusion</span> </span> Every time you feel proud, greedy, angry, or attached, just talk to yourself and ask why you are feeling proud or why these emotions are arising. Forget the external factors and focus on the divine light within you. Often, we become attached to material things that may be present in our lives today but can disappear tomorrow, such as money. If we understand that the divine light resides within us, we will not be swayed by these temporary voices and distractions. The Guru helps us avoid falling into the trap of these emotions by making us aware of our anger and attachments, which can ultimately lead to our downfall. </p> <p class="mb-4"> Now, the question arises: should we eliminate these emotions entirely? Is it wrong to have a little anger or greed, or are these feelings natural? Consider this: even a small amount of poison can be detrimental and lead to harm. Similarly, even a drop of these negative emotions can lead to our downfall if we let them overpower us. They have the potential to destroy us. Therefore, we must channelize these emotions in a productive manner. </p> <p class="mb-4"> The Guru teaches us to channelize these vices and transform them into virtues. Instead of blindly fulfilling our desires or suppressing them completely, we should seek guidance from wise individuals and be self-aware in order to defend ourselves against these vices. Our goal now is to redirect and harness these vices, turning them into virtuous actions. </p> <p class="mb-4"> <span class="heading font-semibold text-indigo-600 mb-4 block"> <span class="pb-1 border-b-4 border-double border-b-indigo-600">Q & A</span> </span> </p> <!-- Q & A accordion --> <div class="qAndA flex flex-col"> <!-- Question -1 --> <div class="questionWrapper question-1 bg-white border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify">How is attachment karma?</p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class=""> When we are attached , we believe that we are doing something for someone. Just the fact that you are doing or you are the doer leads to making new karma. </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 2 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify">How can we change ourself?</p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p> Listening to the Guru’s Vaani with full faith and applying it in our daily lives. The first step to bring change within yourself is to realize you need to change. Applying and Practicing the Guru’s vachan in our daily lives will bring about this change. </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 3 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify">Ego, Money, Attitude and Power end at one place - graveyard. Can you guide us about the bitter truth about this?</p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> Change is inevitable in everything you see today or have today or will have have in the future. You have to understand that all these things are with you today, they might not be with you tomorrow. </p> <p class="my-1"> Gyaan is what prepares you to accept this change in life. Change is inevitable and the sooner we accept this truth , the easier it is to accept any situation that arises in life. </p> <p class="my-1"> If you have money and power - don’t misuse it - that’s where the ego and attitude come into play - use it to grow and help others grow. Understand that this is not yours, but for you. Accept the temporary nature of everything in life and you will learn to sail through life beautifully. </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 4 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify">How do we get rid of the habit of gossiping?</p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> This need for gossip stems from the fact that you want to prove yourself right and the other person wrong. It’s best to keep quiet and ignore such gossip if it has nothing to do with you. Ask yourself- </p> <ol class="list-decimal px-4"> <li> <p>Is it necessary?</p> </li> <li> <p>Is it going to help me move forward in life?</p> </li> <li> <p>Is it the truth or has it been fabricated to look like the truth?</p> </li> </ol> <p class="my-1"> Also know that - If I pass on the gossip - it will lead to me making karma which I will have to pay for. It will come with self- realization and practice . </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 5 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify">How do you get over the fear of social anxiety?</p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> Go out and face this fear. Try going with a friend or someone who is aware of your anxiety and choose a place where it’s easy for you to leave if you have to. </p> <p class="my-1"> You will feel less anxious if you talk or engage with people you are comfortable talking to. </p> <p class="my-1">Try not focusing on yourself or your behaviour and enjoy your surroundings. </p> <p class="my-1">Facing this fear will help you build confidence in who you are. </p> <p class="my-1">Don’t be scared or shy.</p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 6 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify">If someone suddenly misbehaves with us what do I do? </p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> Misbehavior can be of various kinds. </p> <p class="my-1"> If it’s a General misbehavior- try and talk to the person and communicate that you are not comfortable with what they did and would appreciate that they don’t do it in the future. </p> <p class="my-1">If it’s sudden - something you did could’ve triggered it. Find out the reason through cordial communication and try and sort it out. </p> <p class="my-1">If it’s misbehavior of an inappropriate kind or sexual kind - please speak to someone who has the authority in that organization or situation to do something about it. If it’s this kind of misbehavior please don’t be scared to voice out. </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 7 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify">How do you love yourself if you are not physically healthy and therefore you don’t have a good feeling for others as well? </p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> If you are not physically healthy and you don’t like yourself as you are now - try bringing a change in your routine - move from being unhealthy to healthy by making certain lifestyle changes. It’s entirely in your hands to change what you don’t like about yourself. </p> <p class="my-1"> At the same time, don’t use drastic measures and hurt yourself , take it one day at a time. </p> <p class="my-1">When you learn to accept yourself as you are , you will accept everything around you. </p> <p class="my-1"> Don’t body shame yourself , but don’t be hesitant to change your lifestyle to a healthier one either. The ball is in your court. </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 8 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify"> What is the difference between goal and desire? </p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> A goal is a commitment you make - something you want to achieve for your betterment. Something you work towards. It’s usually long- term. </p> <p class="my-1"> A desire is usually momentary and keeps changing with your wants and situations. </p> <p class="my-1"> For example - your goal is being fit , but your desire is to eat tasty and junk food - So you decide whether your goal is important or your desire. </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 9 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify"> If I’m not good at something is it good to have hope or expectation that I will be better? </p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> You can’t be the best at everything. But if it’s something you are passionate about and you practice enough you can make yourself better. </p> <p class="my-1"> However, if that doesn’t happen even after you put in your best don’t be ashamed to find something that you are better at. </p> <p class="my-1"> Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 10 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify"> How do you develop good bonds as sisters? </p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> You work on every relationship with communication and love and nurture it. </p> <p class="my-1"> Be open and honest and be yourself in every situation. </p> <p class="my-1"> Don’t let small issues or your ego get in the way of your relationship. </p> </div> </div> <!-- Question - 11 --> <div class="questionWrapper bg-white question-2 border border-gray-400 mb-4 rounded-md overflow-hidden"> <button class="question w-full bg-gray-200 text-md p-3 font-semibold flex items-center text-left justify-between cursor-pointer "> <p class="w-3/4 text-justify"> If you get anxious and tense is that your karma? </p> <svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" fill="none" viewBox="0 0 24 24" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="currentColor" class="w-6 h-6 arrows"> <path stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" d="M19.5 8.25l-7.5 7.5-7.5-7.5" /> </svg> </button> <div class="answer p-3 hidden"> <p class="my-1"> If you get anxious and tense it’s usually your fears coming to the surface. 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