Luxbane's (almost level 49 again, heeh) gear:

Crown of King Tranix
Cape of Midnight Mist
Guise of the Deceiver
Fishbone Earring
Electrum Sapphire earring
Platinum Fire Emerald Ring
Gold Star Ruby Ring (or whichever the 7 cha is)
Lambent Bracer x2
Crested Spaulders
Mithril Vambraces
Mithril Breastplate
Imbrued Platemail Greaves (woohoo it drops again!)
Hooded Black Cloak
Dwarven Work Boots
Flowing Black Silk Sash
Short Sword of the Ykesha x2
Runed Bone Fork

Lute of the Gypsy Princess
Selo's Drums of the March
McVaxius' Horn of War
Wooden Flute (lol)

I also carry extra junk in my box of abukar: a Crown of the Froglok Kings,
2 Opalline Earrings, another star ruby ring, a thick banded belt, and an
electrum-bladed wakizashi. Oh, and for Hate sometimes I'll carry a
Mistmoore shield for the disease resists and AC boost. That way I can
change stats as needed. As it is in normal gear I have 127 STR 130 DEX and
130 CHA which is hardly lacking on any of those. The only one I wish I
could boost more is AGI which for me is only about 114.

BTW for dragon raids the gear changes in favor of elemental resist + AC
jewelry, and anything with the specific type of elemental resist I need.
Last night in an attempt (sadly failed, only the second or third failed on
our server) on Nagafen, my magic resist buffed (gear + buff spells +
elemental and guardian twisted with drum) was 260 or so and my heat resist
was 220. I outlived every party member. I generally survive dragons with
that gear. 8) The point there is to dress for endurance not for power.