I'll resist the temptation to tell you to get yourself some new friends and
instead suggest you work out a strategy with them where someone else takes
the initial damage (the cleric, if it's just you a cleric and an enchanter)
then you kick in your mega-taunting Hymn and taunt it off. Maybe then no
one will die, or at least death won't be predetermined.

The only other option I see for you, other than getting yourself some new
friends, which I won't say, is to take Rokenn's advice and go solo for a
while.

Peace
Evulia, bard of 10 verses, Tunare