I know exactly how you feel Roop, I had the same thoughts myself. BUt
if you are willing to hang in there for a little bit I think your
patience will pay off. The reason for this is group teleports. It used
to be when my friends and I are logged on we plan to go to one dungeon
and see what we can do in there and then call it a night. Nowadays we
got to a dungeon, do as much as we can in there and then group gate
elsewhere and have fun there too. It's great. Run into Solusek A and
clear out the area all the way into the Goblin King, then group gate to
Unrest and kill the ghost in there and then move on to Mistmoore, all
in one night.

Another thing, overcrowded dungeons. I don't know how it is on your
server but on Innoruuk, Unrest and Cazic Thule are the most camped
dungeons. Solusek B is usually filled with the higher level people
trying to exp and so is Lower Guk. Mistmoore has a decent number of
people most of the time. Other than that, there really isn't many
people anywhere else. Najena is usually empty except for the Drezlna
room. Solusek A is hardly filled and it's a great dungeon in my
opinion. Guk is also usually deserted except for a high level wizard
camping the scryer. Permafrost usually has a group or two but since
it's so big, there's plenty of gobs to go around for a couple more
people.

I've found that for me, the best resource I can have is a steady group
of friends that I can group with. I am not in a guild for personal
reasons but I know enough people to group with constantly and have lots
of fun.

I hope this helps.

Darrian Ashoka