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title: Be impeccable with your word
modified: 2026-06-10
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> “Words are but pictures of our thoughts.” — John Dryden

> “Understanding is the heartwood of well-spoken words.” — The Buddha

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“Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.”

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One useful word is better than a thousand useless words.

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Always be aware of how you are using the word. Avoid using the word to [speak against yourself](be-careful-how-you-are-talking-to-yourself.md) or to [never-gossip-about-others](never-gossip-about-others.md) about others.

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Some questions to consider before you speak:

 * _Does this need to be said?_
 * _Does this need to be said by me?_
 * _Does this need to be said by me right now?_

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Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates:

1. _Is it true?_
2. _Is it necessary?_
3. _Is it kind?_

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[speak-less-listen-more](speak-less-listen-more.md)