--- title: The Social Slope Effect created: 2025-12-30T09:21:54 modified: 2025-12-30T09:30:56 --- > _If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together._ > > 一個人走得快,一群人走得遠。 --- 一加一大於二 --- Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much. --- United we stand, divided we fall. --- Challenges and struggles are inevitable, but facing them alone is optional. --- [@schnallSocialSupportPerception2008] > The challenge doesn’t change, but the perception of that challenge does. In the first study, the researchers had a group of participants stand at the base of a steep 26° hill wearing a heavy backpack. Some of the participants were alone, while others were paired with a friend. Then they asked the participants to estimate the hill’s steepness. The findings were fascinating: * Participants who were paired with a friend estimated the hill to be significantly less steep than those who were alone. * Relationship duration with the friend correlated negatively with perceived steepness. The longer the friendship, the gentler the hill appeared. In a follow-up study, the researchers had the participants stand alone and simply imagine either a supportive person (friend), neutral person (store clerk), or negative person (someone who had betrayed them). Once again, the results were clear: * Participants who imagined a supportive person saw the hill as less steep than those who imagined neutral or negative people. * The closeness and warmth of the imagined relationship were negatively correlated with perceived steepness. The better the relationship, the gentler the hill appeared.