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name: debt-collector-response
description: "Respond to a debt collector correctly — know your rights, make them prove the debt, and avoid the mistakes that reset the clock or admit liability. Use when asked how to deal with a debt collector, a collection agency is contacting me, is this debt real, or respond to a collections letter. Produces a validation/proof-of-debt request, a rights-aware read on what collectors can and can't do, guidance on statute-of-limitations and not accidentally restarting it, a communication and record-keeping plan, and escalation if they break the rules. Not legal advice."
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# Debt Collector Response

Collectors count on people either panicking and paying anything, or ignoring it until it escalates. The right move is neither: make them *prove* the debt is yours and accurate, know what they legally can and can't do, and be careful not to accidentally admit or restart an old debt. This prepares that response — while being clear it isn't legal advice.

## What This Skill Produces

- **A debt-validation request** — the letter demanding they prove the debt, amount, and their right to collect, before you pay anything
- **A rights read** — what collectors legally can and can't do (contact limits, harassment, false threats) for your region
- **A statute-of-limitations caution** — how old the debt is, and how *not* to accidentally restart the clock (a payment or admission can reset it)
- **A communication plan** — in writing where possible, what to say and not say, and a record of every contact
- **Escalation** — how to report violations, and options like disputing, negotiating, or settlement — flagged carefully

## Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:
- **The contact** — letter, call, email; the collector's name and what they claim
- **The debt** — amount, original creditor, and roughly how old
- **Is it yours** — recognized, unsure, disputed, or possibly not yours/already paid
- **What you've done** — any payments, promises, or acknowledgments made
- **Region** — determines rights, limits, and statute of limitations

## Framework: Verify First, Protect The Clock

1. **Validate before you pay.** Request written proof of the debt, the amount, and the collector's authority to collect — never pay on a phone demand alone.
2. **Know the rules.** Collectors face legal limits (contact times, harassment, false or threatening claims). Recognizing violations shifts the power back to you.
3. **Mind the statute of limitations.** Old debts may be time-barred — but a partial payment or written admission can *reset* the clock. Don't acknowledge or pay an old debt without understanding this.
4. **Communicate in writing.** Put key communication in writing, keep copies of everything, and log every call (date, name, what was said).
5. **Then decide.** Once validated, options include dispute (if wrong/not yours), negotiate/settle, or a payment plan — chosen deliberately, not under pressure.

## Output Format

### Collections response: [collector] · [amount] · ~[age] · yours? [y/n/unsure]

**Step 1 — Validate:** send a written debt-validation request (proof, amount, authority). Don't pay until validated.
**Your rights:** [region — contact limits, harassment/false-threat protections].
**Clock caution:** debt is ~[age]; [note on statute of limitations + don't reset it by paying/admitting].
**Communicate:** in writing · say [x], avoid [admissions] · log every contact.
**Then:** [dispute if not yours / negotiate / settle / plan] — after validation.
**If they break the rules:** [report to the relevant authority].

> Not legal advice. For lawsuits, large sums, or complex disputes, consult a qualified adviser or legal-aid service.

## Quality Checks
- [ ] Leads with debt validation before any payment
- [ ] States region-appropriate collector rules/limits
- [ ] Warns that paying/admitting can restart the statute of limitations
- [ ] Advises written communication and a contact log
- [ ] Presents dispute/negotiate/settle only after validation
- [ ] Flags "not legal advice" for serious cases

## Anti-Patterns
- **Paying immediately** on a phone demand without validation.
- **Admitting or part-paying an old debt** and resetting the clock.
- **Communicating only by phone** with no record.
- **Ignoring it entirely** until it escalates to court.
- **Treating this as legal advice** for a lawsuit-level matter.

## Example Trigger Phrases
- "A debt collector is calling about a debt I don't recognize — what do I do?"
- "How do I make a collection agency prove I owe this?"
- "I got a collections letter for an old debt — should I pay it?"
- "Can debt collectors call me at work / threaten me?"
- "Write me a debt validation letter."