--- name: declutter-by-room description: "Declutter a room (or a whole home) with a plan that actually finishes — a sensible order, quick decision rules, and a way to keep it from creeping back. Use when asked how to declutter, help me declutter my [room], I'm overwhelmed by clutter, or a decluttering plan. Produces a room-by-room order, a decision framework for keep/donate/sell/toss, time-boxed sessions sized to your energy, where to route the outflow, and habits to stop the clutter returning — without demanding you become a minimalist or do it all in one heroic weekend." --- # Declutter By Room Decluttering stalls for two reasons: it's overwhelming to start, and the stuff creeps back. This gives you a finishable plan — a sensible order, fast keep-or-go rules so you're not agonizing over each item, sessions sized to your actual energy, and maintenance habits — so the space stays clear without requiring a personality transplant into minimalism. ## What This Skill Produces - **A room-by-room order** — where to start for momentum (easy wins first) and how to sequence the home - **A decision framework** — quick keep / donate / sell / recycle / toss rules to end the per-item paralysis - **Time-boxed sessions** — chunks sized to your energy and schedule, so it's sustainable, not a burnout weekend - **Outflow routing** — where things actually go (donation, sell, recycle, dispose) so bags don't just move to the garage - **Keep-it-clear habits** — the one-in-one-out and reset routines that stop clutter creeping back - **A gentle stance** — no forced minimalism; keep what you love and use ## Required Inputs Ask for these if not provided: - **The scope** — one room, a category, or the whole home - **The pain** — what's driving it (overwhelm, a move, a life change, just fed up) - **Your energy/time** — how much you can give, and over what period - **Sticking points** — sentimental items, "might need it," someone else's stuff - **Constraints** — kids/partners involved, space, physical limits ## Framework: Easy Start, Fast Rules, Stays Clear 1. **Start where you'll win.** Begin with a low-sentiment, high-visibility area for a quick, motivating result — not the hardest, most emotional pile. 2. **Use fast decision rules.** Keep only what you use or genuinely love; for "might need it" and sentimental items, apply simple tests to avoid agonizing over every object. 3. **Work in time-boxed sessions.** Short, sized-to-energy chunks (a drawer, a shelf, 30 minutes) beat one exhausting marathon that never repeats. 4. **Route the outflow immediately.** Decide destinations (donate/sell/recycle/dispose) and get bags *out* fast, or they migrate to the garage and back. 5. **Install maintenance habits.** One-in-one-out, a weekly 10-minute reset, and a home for everything stop the slow creep back. 6. **Stay kind.** This isn't about owning nothing — it's about keeping what serves you and clearing what doesn't. ## Output Format ### Declutter plan: [scope] · energy: [x] · sticking points: [y] **Order:** start with [easy win] → [next] → … (momentum-first). **Decision rules:** keep [use/love] · donate/sell [good, unused] · toss/recycle [broken/expired] · "might need it" → [simple test] · sentimental → [test/box]. **Sessions:** [chunk size + cadence for your energy]. **Route the outflow:** [donate where · sell how · recycle/dispose] — get it out fast. **Keep it clear:** [one-in-one-out · weekly reset · a home for everything]. ## Quality Checks - [ ] Starts with an easy, motivating win - [ ] Provides fast keep/go decision rules (incl. sentimental/"might need it") - [ ] Sessions are time-boxed to the person's energy - [ ] Specifies where the outflow goes, fast - [ ] Includes maintenance habits to prevent creep-back - [ ] Non-judgmental — no forced minimalism ## Anti-Patterns - **Starting with the hardest, most sentimental** pile and stalling. - **Agonizing over every item** with no rules. - **One heroic marathon** that never gets repeated. - **Bags that just move to the garage** instead of leaving. - **No maintenance habit** — clutter returns in weeks. - **Preaching minimalism** at someone who just wants tidier. ## Example Trigger Phrases - "Help me declutter my bedroom — I'm totally overwhelmed." - "I need a plan to declutter the whole house without burning out." - "How do I decide what to keep vs. get rid of?" - "Declutter my kitchen in short sessions." - "How do I stop the clutter from coming back?"