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name: hyperfocus-exit
description: "Give yourself a gentle, structured off-ramp from hyperfocus before it costs you sleep, meals, or the rest of your life. Use when asked I've been at this for hours, help me stop working, I can't pull myself away from this, or I lost track of time again. Produces a quick reality check on how long you've been at it and what you've neglected, a save-your-place ritual so stopping doesn't feel like losing progress, a graceful stopping point, and the transition to what you actually need to do next — because for some brains, stopping is harder than starting."
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# Hyperfocus Exit

Hyperfocus is a superpower with no brakes — you look up and it's dark, you haven't eaten, and you've blown past three things you meant to do. For many people (especially ADHD), *stopping* is the hard part, not starting. This gives a structured exit: a reality check, a way to save your place so leaving doesn't feel like abandoning progress, a clean stopping point, and a bridge to what you actually need next.

## What This Skill Produces

- **The reality check** — how long you've actually been at it and what got neglected (food, water, sleep, people, other commitments)
- **A save-your-place ritual** — capturing exactly where you are so stopping doesn't feel like losing the thread (the main reason people can't stop)
- **A graceful stopping point** — a natural place to break rather than an abrupt yank
- **The transition** — what you need to do right now (eat, move, sleep, that thing you forgot) and a gentle push into it
- **A return plan** — reassurance that you can pick this back up, so leaving is safe

## Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:
- **What you've been deep in** — the task
- **How long** — roughly (you may not know — that's a sign)
- **What you've neglected** — meals, sleep, a commitment, people
- **What you actually need to do** — the thing hyperfocus is crowding out

## Framework: Reality, Save, Release

1. **Hold up a mirror.** Name how long it's been and what's been neglected — gently, without shame; awareness is the first brake.
2. **Save the place.** The reason people can't stop is fear of losing the thread — capture where they are (a note, a next-step, an open loop) so returning is easy and leaving is safe.
3. **Find a clean break.** A natural stopping point beats an abrupt stop that the brain resists; get to the end of a small unit.
4. **Name the real need.** Surface what the body/life actually requires now — food, water, movement, sleep, or the neglected commitment.
5. **Bridge into it.** Give a gentle, concrete push into the transition, with a return plan so the person knows the work is waiting, not lost.

## Output Format

### You've been deep in: [the task] · ~[duration]

**Reality check:** neglected — [food / water / sleep / people / commitment].
**Save your place:** [capture where you are + the next step], so this is waiting, not lost.
**Clean break:** finish [this small unit], then stop.
**👉 What you need now:** [eat / drink / move / sleep / the thing you forgot].
**Return plan:** it'll be right here when you come back.

## Quality Checks
- [ ] Names the duration and what's been neglected, without shame
- [ ] Provides a save-your-place ritual (the key to being able to stop)
- [ ] Offers a graceful stopping point, not an abrupt yank
- [ ] Surfaces the real physical/life need
- [ ] Includes a return plan so leaving feels safe

## Anti-Patterns
- **Shaming** the person for losing track.
- **"Just stop"** with no save-your-place — they won't.
- **An abrupt break** the brain resists.
- **No transition** to the actual need.

## Example Trigger Phrases
- "I've been coding for six hours and forgot to eat — help me stop."
- "I can't pull myself away from this project."
- "I lost track of time again. Help me wrap up."
- "It's 2am and I'm still at this. I need to stop."
- "Give me an off-ramp from this — I'm hyperfocused."