--- layout: default title: "No to Homosexuals, Yes to Their Vote" description: "A DNA India report by Yogesh Pawar on a BJP advertisement placed on Grindr during the 2014 Lok Sabha election campaign, with comments from Sunil Abraham on advertising network practices." categories: [Media mentions] date: 2014-03-21 authors: ["Yogesh Pawar"] source: "DNA India" permalink: /media/no-to-homosexuals-yes-to-their-vote-dna-india/ created: 2026-05-23 --- **No to Homosexuals, Yes to Their Vote** is a *DNA India* article by Yogesh Pawar, published on 21 March 2014. The report examines how a BJP election advertisement appeared on Grindr, a gay social media dating platform, despite the party's opposition to decriminalising consensual same-sex relations. It includes a comment from [Sunil Abraham](/sunil/) on how this likely reflected a gap in knowledge of advertising networks rather than deliberate targeting. ## Contents 1. [Article Details](#article-details) 2. [Full Text](#full-text) 3. [Context and Background](#context-and-background) 4. [External Link](#external-link) ## Article Details
In a hotly contested election where every vote will count, the scramble among political parties to scrounge for votes is understandable. Yet, what would you make of a party that hates a community but wants their votes? The BJP had opposed any move to nullify Supreme Court's order re-criminalising consensual sex among consenting adults, dealing a huge setback to any move to scrap or dilute Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code (IPC). Party chief Rajnath Singh went to the extent of saying, "Gay sex is not natural and we cannot support something which is unnatural."
This is why the gay community across the country has expressed surprise to find a BJP ad asking for votes on the popular gay social media dating website Grindr. The ad, which will obviously lead to a lot of red faces in the BJP, appears at the bottom of the page and has both the party's lotus symbol and their prime-ministerial candidate Narendra Modi's photograph displayed prominently. It exhorts voters to vote BJP to stop price rise.
"This exposes the party's hypocrisy," guffawed India's pioneering gay rights activist Ashok Row Kavi. "So you want our votes and not us. I'm glad this has happened. The country will finally know the true face of falsehood of the party."
He's not alone. Many from the community have taken to social media sites like Facebook and Twitter to make their disgust known. Counselling psychologist Deepak Kashyap is one of them. "So, #BJP says it'd never support the 'unnatural act' of homosexuality, but #NaMO has no qualms about asking for support on gay dating apps, like Grindr! What a sham(e)!" he posted.
Linking most homophobia with an intense struggle with latent homosexuality, Kashyap, the University of Bristol pass-out and equal rights activist for the LGBTQ community, told DNA, "Whatever makes you jump up in your chair, essentially makes you insecure about your own condition in some way or the other." According to him, similar results were shown in a research called 'Is Homophobia Associated with Homosexual Arousal?', by Georgia University published in the Journal of Abnormal Psychology.
When reached for comment, the BJP's National IT head Arvind Gupta said, "I am not aware of such an ad being placed on this website. If this is indeed true we will take it up with the advertising agency responsible." BJP spokesperson and Lok Sabha candidate from New Delhi Meenakshi Lekhi too told DNA, "This is the first I am hearing of such an advertisement," and added, "In the first instance it seems like a deliberate act of mischief in the poll season to embarrass our party."
Centre for Internet and Society, Executive Director Sunil Abraham felt the ad on Grindr may have to do more with the lack of knowledge than anything else. "We find many ads by top Indian corporate brands on pirate websites. This happens because people are still not completely conversant with negotiating with advertising networks when it comes to websites."