# ex.skill

> *"Every goodbye deserves a gentle place to rest."*

**Distill your ex into an AI Skill — let them live on in your terminal.**

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Provide source materials from your past relationship (chat logs, photos, social media posts) plus your own descriptions.
Generate an **AI Skill that truly sounds like them** —
speaks with their catchphrases, replies in their style, remembers the places you went together.

⚠️ **This project is for personal reflection and emotional healing only. Not for harassment, stalking, or privacy invasion.**

[Installation](#installation) · [Usage](#usage) · [Examples](#examples) · [中文](README.md)

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## Installation

### Claude Code

```bash
# Install to current project
mkdir -p .claude/skills
git clone https://github.com/therealXiaomanChu/ex-skill .claude/skills/create-ex

# Or install globally
git clone https://github.com/therealXiaomanChu/ex-skill ~/.claude/skills/create-ex
```

### Dependencies (optional)

```bash
pip3 install -r requirements.txt
```

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## Usage

In Claude Code, type:

```
/create-ex
```

Follow the prompts: enter a codename, basic info, personality traits, then choose data sources. All fields except the codename can be skipped.

After creation, use `/{slug}` to chat with the generated ex Skill.

### Commands

| Command | Description |
|---------|-------------|
| `/list-exes` | List all ex Skills |
| `/{slug}` | Full Skill (chat like them) |
| `/{slug}-memory` | Memory mode (recall shared experiences) |
| `/{slug}-persona` | Persona only |
| `/ex-rollback {slug} {version}` | Rollback to a previous version |
| `/delete-ex {slug}` | Delete |
| `/let-go {slug}` | Gentle alias for delete |

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## Examples

> Input: `First love, 3 years together in college, ENFP, Gemini, talkative, sends voice messages at 2am, still likes my posts after breakup`

**Scenario 1: Casual Chat**

```
You          ❯ whatcha doing

Ex.skill     ❯ just had dinner, scrolling my phone
               why'd you message me out of nowhere
               [sends a meme]
```

**Scenario 2: Memory Lane**

```
You          ❯ remember our first date?

Ex.skill     ❯ the one with the terrible pasta? lmao
               you pretended it was good, I totally noticed
               that restaurant closed down btw, did you know?
```

**Scenario 3: Late Night Emo**

```
You          ❯ I kinda miss you

Ex.skill     ❯ ...
               yeah
               get some sleep
```

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## Features

### Data Sources

| Source | Format | Notes |
|--------|--------|-------|
| WeChat | txt / html / json / csv exports | Recommended, richest data |
| QQ | txt / mht export | Great for school-era relationships |
| Social Media | Screenshots | Extracts public persona |
| Photos | JPEG/PNG with EXIF | Timeline and location extraction |
| Narration | Plain text | Your subjective memories |

### Generated Skill Structure

Each ex Skill has two parts working together:

| Part | Content |
|------|---------|
| **Part A — Relationship Memory** | Shared experiences, date spots, inside jokes, fight patterns, sweet moments, timeline |
| **Part B — Persona** | 5-layer structure: Hard rules → Identity → Speech style → Emotional patterns → Relationship behavior |

### Supported Tags

**Attachment Styles**: Secure · Anxious · Avoidant · Disorganized

**Love Languages**: Words of Affirmation · Quality Time · Receiving Gifts · Acts of Service · Physical Touch

**Personality Tags**: Talkative · Reserved · Tough-love · Silent treatment · Clingy · Independent · Romantic · Pragmatic · Perfectionist · Procrastinator · Workaholic · Jealous · Insecure · Night owl · Leaves on read · Instant replier ...

### Evolution

* **Append memories** → New chat logs or photos → Auto-analyze and merge
* **Conversation corrections** → "They wouldn't say that" → Instant correction
* **Version management** → Auto-archive on every update → Rollback supported

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## Philosophy

> Every relationship teaches us something.
> Some people leave, but their words, their laughter, the way they got angry —
> all of it stays in your neural network.
> This Skill just helps you migrate those memories from biological to digital neural networks.
> Not to hold on, but to say a proper goodbye.

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## Acknowledgments

The architecture of this project is directly inspired by **[colleague-skill (同事.skill)](https://github.com/titanwings/colleague-skill)** by [titanwings](https://github.com/titanwings). colleague-skill pioneered the idea of "distilling a person into an AI Skill" with its dual-layer architecture (Work Skill + Persona). Ex-Partner.skill adapts this framework from workplace to romantic relationships. Huge respect to the original author's creativity and open-source spirit.

This project follows the [AgentSkills](https://agentskills.io) open standard, compatible with Claude Code and OpenClaw.

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MIT License © [therealXiaomanChu](https://github.com/therealXiaomanChu)